We live in a world where we have the option to choose the
information we want to read/listen. One like, One subscribe button is all that It
takes. But this provides a lopsided view of arguments and doesn't empower us to
have balanced opinions or connect divergent things.
Every time we travel, we listen to songs, sleep, read books,
check latest news, update status messages on Facebook/twitter, talk over phone
or reply mails. When was the last time you struck a conversation with a
stranger and listened to his stories or opinions. Everyone has stories. But we
choose to move out of comfort zone, try knowing someone/something new. We like
to play within the box that we have created with the info we have subscribed
to. Technology has just enabled us to fall back on easier choice than doing something
difficult.
Some people by nature are extroverts. For the rest of them, this
becomes a habit when we sustain this for months. And we tend to think that
social and interpersonal skills are not their cup of tea. The biggest challenge
comes when they’re evaluated based on their social skills. (Say during college
admissions, job interviews). This is not the only criteria, but a factor that
might play a crucial role in the future.
Next time you travel in bus, train, flights or even walk,
listen. Everyone has stories. Problems of other people can be solved by your
solutions and breakthrough ideas. After all, it is not a bad skill to have and
develop.
